Ruth 1:19-21, Naomi didn’t want to be called Naomi but Mara because of the hardship she encountered in life. When I prefer to be called Phindy instead of Phindile there’s a reason for we all have history, but there’s a name that is greater than any other name and that is the name of Jesus! The name of Jesus is a strong tower that the righteous runs into and they’re saved! Proverbs 18:10.
Seek to understand instead of jumping to conclusions!