Some things do not need a brainer but they are simply a test of loyalty, honesty, and integrity. Boaz did not hide his dealings and publicly announced that he was taking Ruth as his wife. So, if a man has good intentions why would he hide you? Let us please read Ruth 4:9-10.
9 And Boaz said to the elders and all the people, “You are witnesses this day that I have bought all that was Elimelech’s, and all that was Chilion’s and Mahlon’s, from the hand of Naomi. 10 Moreover, Ruth the Moabitess, the widow of Mahlon, I have acquired as my wife, to perpetuate the name of the dead through his inheritance, that the name of the dead may not be cut off from among his brethren and from his position at the gate. You are witnesses this day.” NKJV
#open your eyes and do not allow desperation to influence your decision-making
#if one cannot be honest to themselves, please do not expect them to be honest to you
#remember, an indecisive man can NEVER be trusted!